As for the brain wiring......I've come to understand that my brain is wired a bit differently from other people's in some respects. For example, while I read extensively and consider that I'm articulate and can use language well, I have realised that my brain simply can't process subtlety.
What do I mean by this? If someone says something to me in a roundabout way, perhaps because they're trying to not offend me, or maybe they are just hinting at some meaning but not actully stating what they mean, I become quite confused and uncomfortable. If there is more than one way their comment can be interpreted, I don't know which way to take it. I really need people to say exactly what they mean so I can understand them. Perhaps this is why politics holds no appeal for me - I couldn't handle it.
Another example - while I can multitask, in the sense that I will work on a number of different things at once, I find it very hard to have more than one major focus in my head at a time. At present, it's my forthcoming trip. This means that everything else becomes secondary and just doesn't get my attention.
Am I alone in this, or do other creative people have similar issues?
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About the Brain wiring - I am that way too. I've been diagnosed as Bordeline Personality Disorder. This was strangely comforting and nice to know that yes my brain was wired different but I wasn't the only one.
Hi Shirley, Your post made me laugh! And I was relieved to know that I'm not alone. Subtlety is completely lost on me. I feel exactly as you do when someone tries the roundabout stuff on me... Politics is out of my scope...
But I live quite well with that, I just make it clear to the people who are significant to me.
I think my problem is that I call it as I see it and I often say things too bluntly. It'll be true but it will offend people. That's when I have to practise the soft talking around the issue and trading curly words instead of straight words. It can be exhausting.
I love the coloured wool!
Yes, I have three children like this and I think that my husband and I are also like this. Say what you mean and mean what you say are all important if you are going to hang out with us!
Nice blog!!
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